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This maybe the wrong forum to put this topic on, but hey I trust you lot...
Okay... Here what happened.. My girlfriedn just finished her period. One night we got abit sexual!? ;)
And well ended up haveing sex...... (first time) plus (no Protection)
I think its a low risk area just after a period... I didnt "go" in her.
After all that me and my Girlfriedn are a bit worried.. if shes pernaut becasue we heard there is "sperm" on the penis as soon as it is erect.... So does anyone have any advice..
Or anyone know if its possiable?
Thank you! :confused: :(
jesush++
01-05-2006, 23:53
OH MY GOD :eek:
Prob best to speak to some proper advise ppl, also, will teach u a lesson about doin it without protection. Also, just to be sure, you should get urself checked for STD's. (Unless it was her first time too)
There isnt "***" on the penis the min its erect, unless you have extreme premature ejaculation problems, in which case, if it continues, consult a doctor.
You seem to young to get sadled with a kid, so in future, for gods sake, use something, whether its her or u, use something.
For having unprotected sex in the first place, you sir, are as the french say, une numptie
Sorry:(
I just didnt know where to go..?
first thing you wanna do is get her to get the morning after pill, god damn life saver of a pill! Then buy some rubbers! at 15 you don't wanna be getting tied down with a kid.
There isn't "sperm" on the penis as soon as its erect unless you suffer from a severe case of premature ejactulation! Though do bare in mind there is whats generally know as pre-*** but that isnt straight away.
Its always possible to get pregnant when having unprotected sex just the chances vary depending on what time of the month it is for her.
Also how much do you trust her/know her sexual history? are you her first? if not you may wanna get checked out for any stds, or even just ask her. If shes offended she might have something to hide.
Thank you so so much!
Shes is my first and im hers! And yeah tahnky ou agaiN! :o
Where can i find the morning after pill... Plus how long can you wait until it takes no effect..
Its been 2 days now!
shifty.ricky
02-05-2006, 00:24
Dude. Usually I'd have a sarcastic comment about this but not tonight.
Go to Tesco, thier pharmacy will sell it. Either that or get down to the GP or any others doctors surgery. Chemists (pharmacies) will stock it. It HAS to be taken within 48 hours of intercourse. It is free so dont worry about having to pay for it.
These places are confidential so they wont have to tell your parents about this.
Where do you live and I'll dig up the closest place for you to go.
Edit: Just re-read the above post. 2 days is too long for the morning after pill to work. You will need to go and see a doctor and seek thier advice.
2 days is nearly the limit i think best to check with you local health centre though, which is one place you can probably get it, or a family planning clinic.
jesush++
02-05-2006, 00:26
Yeah, usually im the first to come in with the "take the ****" comments, but teenage pregnancy isnt funny. As was said, the morning after pill is the only way to be sure ur safe, hopefully this happened tonite. Try to be a bit more carefull in future, it is ur future at stake. Also warn her that she will feel like **** (or at least shes supposed to).
EDIT: Just reread ur post, go to a doctors, 3 days is the limit, and then it only works "fairly well".
shifty.ricky
02-05-2006, 00:30
http://www.nhs.uk/
Go here, enter postcode and find local clinic.
Take her down there tommorrow and explain what has happened (dont worry they have seen it all before). Skip a day off school if needed, this is more important.
Dude. Usually I'd have a sarcastic comment about this but not tonight.
Amen to that.
STRAIGHT to the doctors in the morning, son. Make sure you're both sorted.
Also ask him to provide you with some strong painkillers, then spank yourself round the head hard 'til you need them as punishment for being foolish.
Thought the morning after pill could be taken upto 72 hours after??? but more effective if used in the first 24 hours?
Dunno, like Forthy says, get yourselves off to the Doctors, they'll sort you out :) and try not to worry about it, hope it all goes ok for you guys :)
There wont be sperm on your penis as soon as it's erect, but you might leak some during sex, that's why the withdrawl method isn't effective, use a condom or if it's a long term thing get her on the pill
And remember to keep yourselves safe in the future, that goes for all you guys ;)
jesush++
02-05-2006, 00:40
Thought the morning after pill could be taken upto 72 hours after??? but more effective if used in the first 24 hours?
Dunno, like Forthy says, get yourselves off to the Doctors, they'll sort you out :) and try not to worry about it, hope it all goes ok for you guys :)
Yeah, but were all guys, we dont know the exact symantics of these things. :).
There wont be sperm on your penis as soon as it's erect, but you might leak some during sex, that's why the withdrawl method isn't effective, use a condom or if it's a long term thing get her on the pill
Depends on how much, ahem, handling there was before hand. Pre-come (swear filter won't let me spell it the other way) can contain sperm.
Cheers,
Stephen
it is 72 hours.. hurry boy hurry, and let this teach u!
Depends on how much, ahem, handling there was before hand. Pre-come (swear filter won't let me spell it the other way) can contain sperm.
Cheers,
Stephen
This is true..... i forgot about all that malarkey beforehand :D
This is what happens when you get oooooold, you don't have time for all of that :p
*Waits for the 'EWWWWWWWW, old people having sex! yuck' comments :D
I expect you would be extremely unlucky if she had only just come off her period! I thought kids these day's grew up alot faster! and knew of these things earlier from a, sex education and b, mates :confused:
And for christ sake use some protection!!!!
This is what happens when you get oooooold, you don't have time for all of that :p
*Waits for the 'EWWWWWWWW, old people having sex! yuck' comments :D
Less of that! You're only 2 years older than me and younger than my ex-GF :p
Stephen
Lets get one thing straight..a female can only get pregnant 1 day out the month..FACT! when she ovulates, typically day 16 (varies from girl to girl) after the female menstrates the cycle begins again. (The female ovulates, releases an egg, if not fertalised the woman menstrates and the cycle begins)
In theory straight after a period is the safest time to have unprotected sex without the fear of pregnancy, the sperm can live inside a woman for up to 7 days (typically 3 days) so depending on when the female ovulates in her cycle 7 days prior to this day any unprotected sex can still result in a pregnancy. This type of contraception is called the rhythm method.
Lastly children, sperm can be released long before your ejaculate..traces of sperm can be released as soon as an errection occurs, so its nothing to do with 'premature ejaculation' ;)
One thing I don't get is why you had unprotected sex in the first place.
You're both at school or have been at school (I assume). Everyone knows and is told in sex education (aswell as numerous other places) that unprotected sex is not something you wanna be doing with the risk of teenage pregnancies and STDs.
So unless you're really stupid, or were very intoxicated at the time, why did you rush into it without a condom, or any other precautions? (the 'waiting for period cycle and hope' method is NOT a valid precaution) It's not like condoms are hard to get hold of. :confused:
shifty.ricky
02-05-2006, 12:32
http://www.nctms.co.uk/prod_imgs/4433pl.jpg (http://www.nctms.co.uk/prod_imgs/4433pl.jpg)
All I have to say on the subject....
hylian_231
02-05-2006, 12:37
Go to the doctors right now! I've had to go through this with my ex-girlfriend, she had an abortion and it tore her apart (literally) because of the stress involved in it all.
Unless you want to be deprived of sleep in nine months.
You should really have thought about it before hand.
Good luck buddy
jesush++
02-05-2006, 13:16
hylian, ur life is pretty screwed up (no offence meant), just with everything thats been going on. If anyone is gonna have sex (unless ur tryin to get pregnant) they should use protection.
Greyghost
02-05-2006, 13:16
and just for those who still risk unprotected sex, the 10-14 days after a womans period is when she is most likely to conceive ( me being a recently made dad, knows all about this kind of malarky)
hylian_231
02-05-2006, 13:37
hylian, ur life is pretty screwed up (no offence meant), just with everything thats been going on.
And you think that I didn't realise my life is screwed?
You lot make me feel heaps better 24/7 :rolleyes:
Look at my post count!!!! It's the same as the amount of RAM in my girlfriends pc!
and just for those who still risk unprotected sex, the 10-14 days after a womans period is when she is most likely to conceive ( me being a recently made dad, knows all about this kind of malarky)
'Grats Greyghost :)
muddyfox470
02-05-2006, 15:11
There are some interesting shows on tv about sex ed.
I watched it and they compared it to the education they give on this subject and it was much more visual and indepth, and it started at an earlier age.
I don't want to go into the failings of the education system so please don't start; it isn't all that bad.
In conclusion to whats happened, you learn the hard way! Oh I was actually shocked/intrigued one time in the mens and found some abnormal condom machine, selling all types of shapes/styles for a condom! (not the normal durex / mates sort of ones - i cant remember what they were now! lol)
Ian
It's not like condoms are hard to get hold of. :confused:
I know especially at uni, they have bags of them hanging off all the reps doors! lol
shifty.ricky
02-05-2006, 15:44
When I was at Uni as the president of a sports club I was given approx 1000 condoms by SHAG (Sexual Health Awareness Group).
hylian_231
02-05-2006, 15:53
I'll bet it was fun using them before they're use by dates!! :D
When I was at Uni as the president of a sports club I was given approx 1000 condoms by SHAG (Sexual Health Awareness Group).
Damn I know my student union can be a 'fun' place on a Friday night but 1000 condoms?! Did you ever fit in any time for doin any actual uni work??
broadband
02-05-2006, 16:04
Great, thanks for enforcing yet another teenage stereotype...
None the less, good luck
Thanks everyone!
You are all great!
And now you all know why i come to this forum first!
GREAT PEOPLE! :p
jesush++
02-05-2006, 17:11
Ne news as to how things are now. Did you take our advice and go see a doctor this morning.:confused:
Great, thanks for enforcing yet another teenage stereotype...
None the less, good luck
I wouldn't say its a stereotype broadband, its more like fact. Young people have very little(if any) experience, they think less about the consequences and take more risks because they are inexperienced(im not just talking about sex here but life in general) and that is how accidents happen. The best way for people to learn after all is from their mistakes, this will be a good lesson for Toxicity!
;) Shes went to see a docter!
I didnt need to but i went with her! Shes fine! Nor a preggy yet!
Im so luckey and so is she! Gunn agets some "rubbers" ;)
THE BEAST
02-05-2006, 18:08
;) Shes went to see a docter!
I didnt need to but i went with her! Shes fine! Nor a preggy yet!
Im so luckey and so is she! Gunn agets some "rubbers" ;)
Make sure you pick up some leaflets as well on safe sex, STD's and well and hmmm well anything sexually related.
Holy identical avatar twins batman....
:eek:
Fatal1ty
02-05-2006, 18:13
Damn you got there before me. Just imagine having twins or more at 15 :eek:
THE BEAST
02-05-2006, 18:23
Holy identical avatar twins batman....
:eek:
Mine was first :p and was edited :D
How old are you dude? You must of sailed past all your Sex Ed at school!!
Less of that! You're only 2 years older than me and younger than my ex-GF :p
Stephen
and that makes me bloody ancient....
and yes.. us oldies are still at it....
as for you my lad.... take the advice, and either use protection or keep it in your trousers. sex can be fun, but be safe or take the consequences.
broadband
03-05-2006, 15:46
I wouldn't say its a stereotype broadband, its more like fact. Young people have very little(if any) experience, they think less about the consequences and take more risks because they are inexperienced(im not just talking about sex here but life in general) and that is how accidents happen. The best way for people to learn after all is from their mistakes, this will be a good lesson for Toxicity!
Sorry but I'm going to have to disagree. I'm almost extactly the same age as toxicity (well ,I'm one day older ;)) and yet I've never been in a postion like this. If I can "control" myself, I can't see why anyone else my age can't.
shifty.ricky
03-05-2006, 16:04
Sorry but I'm going to have to disagree. I'm almost extactly the same age as toxicity (well ,I'm one day older ;)) and yet I've never been in a postion like this. If I can "control" myself, I can't see why anyone else my age can't.
Maybe Toxicity just has more animal magnetism than you?
bootup05
03-05-2006, 16:07
lol! .......sorry that just made me laugh:)
Sorry but I'm going to have to disagree. I'm almost extactly the same age as toxicity (well ,I'm one day older ;)) and yet I've never been in a postion like this. If I can "control" myself, I can't see why anyone else my age can't.
But you admit yourself, you're a special case.
'Not your typical teen'
I think Tremble is right. Also because you can 'control yourself' and resist temptations doesn't mean that every other teenager can. Some really can't control themselves, some make the concious choice to do things that perhaps some might think as stupid, or wrong.
Maybe Toxicity just has more animal magnetism than you?
hehe... :D
it's wierd but all that "control yourself" stuff is all well and good when everythings in chilled or gaming mode, but guys, admit it.. when that special lady wants it, once your past that point... self control goes out the window... thing just roll the way they roll, so prepare BEFORE your state of mind goes to her body and the bedroom. because once your in a frame of mind to be doing things the last thing you want to do is run out and get one. and we all know that's true. hope you learned tox mate :) and be careful next time, maybe u will enjoy it instead of having to worry immediately afterwards.
I have been in your position, twice, with 2 different women - luckily no babies! :D One of a mates mates made a girl pregnant when he lost his virginity - he was only 17!!! Such a shame....Don't do that whatever you do - He got into doing drugs after that - it was all one big circle of craziness!!! :eek:
it's wierd but all that "control yourself" stuff is all well and good when everythings in chilled or gaming mode, but guys, admit it.. when that special lady wants it, once your past that point... self control goes out the window... thing just roll the way they roll, so prepare BEFORE your state of mind goes to her body and the bedroom. because once your in a frame of mind to be doing things the last thing you want to do is run out and get one. and we all know that's true. hope you learned tox mate :) and be careful next time, maybe u will enjoy it instead of having to worry immediately afterwards.
Your right! She asked me and i was like .......... gone!
My brain shut down! :D
hey... it happens to us all. at that age, any girl who wanted to drop her knickers was granted time with john thomas....
Cod Ball
03-05-2006, 22:14
And remember to keep yourselves safe in the future, that goes for all you guys ;)
Yes mam :p
wot? even us married peeps who are old?
Your right! She asked me and i was like .......... gone!
My brain shut down! :D
lol i meant a little further into the nightly happenings that just "u wana?" lol :) but at least my point is made :D
Euphoria
04-05-2006, 00:28
I think you got most of the advice you need! Just don't be tempted especially at 15 not to wrap it up! Not sure how old your girlfriend needs to be to go on the pill, but even that isn't 100% safe!
I've been there so know how your feeling!
broadband
04-05-2006, 00:32
Maybe Toxicity just has more animal magnetism than you?
Or maybe I have a carefully thought out life plan that doesn't inculde getting some bird knocked up at 15
shifty.ricky
04-05-2006, 10:48
I think you got most of the advice you need! Just don't be tempted especially at 15 not to wrap it up! Not sure how old your girlfriend needs to be to go on the pill, but even that isn't 100% safe!
I've been there so know how your feeling!
Remember. No glove, no love!
Euphoria
04-05-2006, 11:55
Haha! That sums it up pretty well!
Cod Ball
04-05-2006, 16:10
Don't be stupid, don't be silly put a condom on yer willy! :p
Don't be stupid, don't be silly put a condom on yer willy! :p
Hahha Thats good! ;)
Euphoria
04-05-2006, 17:22
This thread is so going down hill!!
Don't be daft, don't be thick, but a wrapper on that stick :D
Anyway... moving on!!!!
shifty.ricky
04-05-2006, 18:00
Maybe now we've convinced him to use a rain mac we need some maintenance advice...
Q. How do you recycle a condom?
A. Turn it inside out and shake the f**k out of it
jacobzcoool
04-05-2006, 18:03
Maybe now we've convinced him to use a rain mac we need some maintenance advice...
Q. How do you recycle a condom?
A. Turn it inside out and shake the f**k out of it
:p
Q. How do you make a hormone?
a. Don't pay her!
What's that I hear in the distance? It must be the 'Oh Dear' fog horn :rolleyes:
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Deeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrr
Cod Ball
04-05-2006, 18:30
Don't be daft, don't be thick, put a wrapper on that stick :D
Hehe, sorry that bugged me!
All fun and games.
Q. Have you heard about the new super-sensitive condoms?
A. They hang around after the man leaves and talks to the woman.
jacobzcoool
04-05-2006, 20:36
Q. Why is sex like a bank account?
A. Once you withdraw, you lose interest.
What's the difference between a Woman and a Computer!!!
A Computer will accept a 3 1/2 inch floppy :p
I'm sorry, i know it's old, i'll get me coat :p
I take it John is the old fashioned type then? i.e. he has a 5.25" one? Never mind getting me coat, I'm running for the door :D
Stephen
I take it John is the old fashioned type then? i.e. he has a 5.25" one? Never mind getting me coat, I'm running for the door :D
Stephen
Aint the size baby, it's the way you use it :p
Fatal1ty
08-05-2006, 22:05
"Here's my 8 inch floppy....."
At which point we were all in hysterics....
He continued to say...
My wife wasn't to happy when I told her that my floppy wouldn't fit in her 3 1/2 bay....
I'm already running down the road
EDIT: hehe devil's post(#666). Right on cue...
God you lot are nutters you all make me laugh!
Its great to ahve guys(and girls) like you in the world. :D
Its great to ahve guys(and girls) like you in the world. :D
What a lovely note to close on....
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